Lg chocolate touch problem

I'm sorry if this question has already been answered, but looked and looked and looked all over Google and every Choc Touch forum I could find, but either no one else is having this problem or I'm putting 20 different variations of inaccurate search queries.

I have a Jabra BT2080 headset that I'm successfully pairing to my LG Chocolate Touch (8575). I can talk with friends and family via the Bluetooth headset with absolutely no problem. The audio comes through the ear piece perfectly. My responses go through the mic perfectly. I am using this thing!

But the problem that I can't get around is that when I attempt to listen to any music files I have saved on the phone, the music is playing through the phones speaker. How do I tell the phone that it should use the ear piece on the Bluetooth headset instead, just like it is when I am conversing with someone.Where is that option that I'm obviously missing. I have a Chocolate Touch as well. I have upgraded my blue tooth three times and I am now on a Jabra BT530 and I can use it to listen to my music. I just turn on the device and then go to My Music and play whatever playlist I want. It comes through very well. The problem I have is that the Touch and Bluetooth seem to have some issues with communication. I was going to upgrade my Bluetooth, but I think it's the phone.